9.28.2011

Neon Lights


I was once told I shouldn't wear things like this bodysuit as I have 'boobs'. I was really angry at this, as why should what I wear be limited by the fact that I have something that is so natural and part of my body, such as 'boobs'?!
 It's disheartening that this was said to me, I think every girl/woman should be proud of the body that they are in and should wear what feels comfortable to them and their body shape. For me, I feel that if I were to hide my breasts, then I would feel really uncomfortable and frumpy. It has taken me a while to get used to me curvier shape over the years, and have realized instead of trying to hide it, I should embrace it. 
Sorry if I sound a bit preachy or like I'm ranting, I been thinking about righting about this on my blog for a while now. It bothers me that people are told that they should be a certain shape/size and people actually believe this! So felt that I should write about one of my experiences and my feelings on this subject. Have any of you had anything similar happen to you? 

Anyways....I'll talk about something else before I continue to rant!!!! Let's talk about the clothes.  Heels are my feet's biggest love, but lately they've been enjoying the company of the flatter kind of shoes! Sometimes, I find that heels are much more comfier than flat shoes, as flat shoes I find tend to be a lot narrower. I finally have some flat shoes that aren't docs or converse, thanks to my mum :D These shoes are so fun, they remind me of going to school a bit, but they seem to go with everything! When I took these photos, some of them came out really funny, I don't want to traumatize you but if you want to have a look and have a laugh, I'll have them posted here.

Oh yeahhhh.....I'm going to post some things on ebay today, have a look!

Carmen Ri




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What I'm wearing: 
Bodysuit  Bitching & Junkfood
Skirt  Vintage
Belt  UO
Glasses  Primark
Socks  UO
Shoes  Next 



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45 comments:

  1. so sexy >3< I LOVE your dress *_*!
    you have a cute blog :3

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  2. definitely sexy! and wear what you want even if you have "boobs" you look so hot!

    natalie
    http://lucyandtherunaways.blogspot.com

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  3. love love the bodysuit on you.

    J x

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  4. You look lovely, very original

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  5. I love this!! Rant on! I too have boobs and they can be so hard to dress sometimes. I struggle with how "prominent" I want them to be, but what I really need to do is just totally embrace them. More bloggers should talk about this!

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  6. Wise words dear! But the pity is that people are sometimes so mean and cruel, and they wanna hurt you. You see, there are sometimes people who says that I'm a fat girl, instead of saying that I've got a big bust ('cause I've got a size 38 for skirts and pants... so am I a fat girl o a girl with too much breast?).
    Don't pay attention to them, you're gorgeous; simply by being natural. That's why I keep following you, because the way you are :)

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  7. You look so pretty in it!
    People are really cruel sometimes...
    They could be jealous of you!

    SMILE =)
    http://sleepsmilestyle.blogspot.com/

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  8. pretty! :)
    and yes, why would how we dress be limited only because of our body parts! :)

    www.karinzhou.com

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  9. I really like this outfit.
    And I totally agree.

    NRC ♥

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  10. this outfit is as cute as it is edgy. nice work!

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  11. very very cute! xx

    natalieoffduty.blogspot.com

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  12. I like what i see here.

    http://paquetevistasbien.blogspot.com

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  13. You go girl! Totally agree with you, women should wear whatever they feel comfortable with :) Love how 80's this looks . x

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  14. Wow. Fierce. I like it. ♥

    XO, Imke

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  15. Well sweetie, I think you have a super hot body and you should definitely flaunt it!

    This outfit is perfect and really shows off your personality! :)


    xoxo,
    Addie
    The Cat Hag
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  16. lovely socks! and lovely you! aha :D

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  17. wow u are amazing!
    I loev this look :D
    Followqing you :D
    http://smokeinmycloset.blogspot.com

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  18. Nice! i like it?
    have you seen my last outfit post, of cow girl, with Gucci bag?
    came and see it! i wait for you follow !
    kisses
    Miriamstella (from Italy)
    http://isfashionmypassion.blogspot.com/

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  19. mmm, i have boobs too, and they can certainly be annoying when it comes to clothes shopping. i swear all clothes on the high street are made for flt chested girls?! whatever, you look fab, so ignore the haters xxx

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  20. great photos! i love ur style :)
    check out my blog too if ud like: http://etbreadandbutter.blogspot.com/
    xoxo, ET

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  21. You are so ridiculously cute!! I love your hair cut :))

    Aya ♥ Strawberry Koi

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  22. Super stylish!!!Love your vest!

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  23. Amazing outfit, dear! Love your style!

    Kisses.

    http://pollysboudoir.blogspot.com/

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  24. omg love it!! Amazing dress and those shoes!!

    www.closetvoyage.com

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  25. Cool... you look lovely there :)

    www.coffeecreamandthecaffeine.blogspot.com

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  26. You're sooo cute.
    i love the frilly socks and shoes combo! xo

    http://paledivision.blogspot.com/

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  27. Cute flat shoes and bodysuit. Love the neon! :)SArahD

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  28. Hot neon green!

    GTBB,
    http://badjoan.blogspot.com
    http://cookingjoan.blogspot.com

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  29. you look adorable! The neon yellow and black polka dots are sooo cute! love your styling
    Come follow my blog darling :)

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  30. You look great! Nice outfit! :)

    http://liberty-walk-sara.blogspot.com/

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  31. Hey!! Great outfit!! Love your loafers and glasses!!! Oh! And your bow belt!! hehe!!
    Have a nice week!!
    xoxo
    MY LITTLE SUEDE SHEOS

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  32. this is a great rant.

    your boobs look great in this leotard!

    FUCK DEM FUCKERRZZZ

    xo zebra and meerkat

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  33. you are beautiful and your look is so cool *.*

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