Wednesday, 28 September 2011

Neon Lights


I was once told I shouldn't wear things like this bodysuit as I have 'boobs'. I was really angry at this, as why should what I wear be limited by the fact that I have something that is so natural and part of my body, such as 'boobs'?!
 It's disheartening that this was said to me, I think every girl/woman should be proud of the body that they are in and should wear what feels comfortable to them and their body shape. For me, I feel that if I were to hide my breasts, then I would feel really uncomfortable and frumpy. It has taken me a while to get used to me curvier shape over the years, and have realized instead of trying to hide it, I should embrace it. 
Sorry if I sound a bit preachy or like I'm ranting, I been thinking about righting about this on my blog for a while now. It bothers me that people are told that they should be a certain shape/size and people actually believe this! So felt that I should write about one of my experiences and my feelings on this subject. Have any of you had anything similar happen to you? 

Anyways....I'll talk about something else before I continue to rant!!!! Let's talk about the clothes.  Heels are my feet's biggest love, but lately they've been enjoying the company of the flatter kind of shoes! Sometimes, I find that heels are much more comfier than flat shoes, as flat shoes I find tend to be a lot narrower. I finally have some flat shoes that aren't docs or converse, thanks to my mum :D These shoes are so fun, they remind me of going to school a bit, but they seem to go with everything! When I took these photos, some of them came out really funny, I don't want to traumatize you but if you want to have a look and have a laugh, I'll have them posted here.

Oh yeahhhh.....I'm going to post some things on ebay today, have a look!

Carmen Ri




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What I'm wearing: 
Bodysuit  Bitching & Junkfood
Skirt  Vintage
Belt  UO
Glasses  Primark
Socks  UO
Shoes  Next 



45 comments:

((*natsi*)) said...

so sexy >3< I LOVE your dress *_*!
you have a cute blog :3

Natalie Leung said...

definitely sexy! and wear what you want even if you have "boobs" you look so hot!

natalie
http://lucyandtherunaways.blogspot.com

Jen said...

love love the bodysuit on you.

J x

weasel said...

You look lovely, very original

Jazzy E (hivenn) said...

Your bewbs (& general body) = lush. x hivenn

FashionJazz said...

U look super cute : ) x

Lydia said...

I love this!! Rant on! I too have boobs and they can be so hard to dress sometimes. I struggle with how "prominent" I want them to be, but what I really need to do is just totally embrace them. More bloggers should talk about this!

Libertad said...

Wise words dear! But the pity is that people are sometimes so mean and cruel, and they wanna hurt you. You see, there are sometimes people who says that I'm a fat girl, instead of saying that I've got a big bust ('cause I've got a size 38 for skirts and pants... so am I a fat girl o a girl with too much breast?).
Don't pay attention to them, you're gorgeous; simply by being natural. That's why I keep following you, because the way you are :)

June Lee said...

You look so pretty in it!
People are really cruel sometimes...
They could be jealous of you!

SMILE =)
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Karin Zhou said...

pretty! :)
and yes, why would how we dress be limited only because of our body parts! :)

www.karinzhou.com

NRC♥ said...

I really like this outfit.
And I totally agree.

NRC ♥

Wynne Prasetyo said...

this outfit is as cute as it is edgy. nice work!

Natalie Suarez said...

very very cute! xx

natalieoffduty.blogspot.com

Clara Turbay said...

I like what i see here.

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Victoria said...

You go girl! Totally agree with you, women should wear whatever they feel comfortable with :) Love how 80's this looks . x

Imke said...

Wow. Fierce. I like it. ♥

XO, Imke

The Cat Hag said...

Well sweetie, I think you have a super hot body and you should definitely flaunt it!

This outfit is perfect and really shows off your personality! :)


xoxo,
Addie
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francisca paulos said...

lovely socks! and lovely you! aha :D

None Diamonds said...

wow u are amazing!
I loev this look :D
Followqing you :D
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Miriam Stella said...

Nice! i like it?
have you seen my last outfit post, of cow girl, with Gucci bag?
came and see it! i wait for you follow !
kisses
Miriamstella (from Italy)
http://isfashionmypassion.blogspot.com/

D♥R said...

Sexy & sweet

Yuka said...

youre cute as a button!

The Annachrist said...

Helloooo peekaboo cutie

rebecca said...

mmm, i have boobs too, and they can certainly be annoying when it comes to clothes shopping. i swear all clothes on the high street are made for flt chested girls?! whatever, you look fab, so ignore the haters xxx

et.girl said...

great photos! i love ur style :)
check out my blog too if ud like: http://etbreadandbutter.blogspot.com/
xoxo, ET

Aya Smith said...

You are so ridiculously cute!! I love your hair cut :))

Aya ♥ Strawberry Koi

ChiccaStyle said...

Super stylish!!!Love your vest!

Polly said...

Amazing outfit, dear! Love your style!

Kisses.

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Chococcuro said...

omg love it!! Amazing dress and those shoes!!

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rouli said...

cool.hot.

<3

Gabrielle - I LIKE IT FAST said...

LOVE IT MISS!
xx
I LIKE IT FAST

Isquisofrenia said...

the shoes i like a lot

Coffee Cream and the Caffeine said...

Cool... you look lovely there :)

www.coffeecreamandthecaffeine.blogspot.com

paledivision said...

You're sooo cute.
i love the frilly socks and shoes combo! xo

http://paledivision.blogspot.com/

amy b.s. said...

loving the neon!

my republic of fashion said...

Cute flat shoes and bodysuit. Love the neon! :)SArahD

Michaela Scalisi said...

awesome shoes :)


My blog
xoxo Michaela

Bad Joan said...

Hot neon green!

GTBB,
http://badjoan.blogspot.com
http://cookingjoan.blogspot.com

Cecylia said...

you look adorable! The neon yellow and black polka dots are sooo cute! love your styling
Come follow my blog darling :)

muse said...

So Rock! Xx Muse

Jelisaveta said...

You look great! Nice outfit! :)

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Isabel Bianchi said...

Hey!! Great outfit!! Love your loafers and glasses!!! Oh! And your bow belt!! hehe!!
Have a nice week!!
xoxo
MY LITTLE SUEDE SHEOS

I V Y said...

this is a great rant.

your boobs look great in this leotard!

FUCK DEM FUCKERRZZZ

xo zebra and meerkat

Black balloons said...

you are beautiful and your look is so cool *.*

EevvaStyle said...

love your style!

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